Unfairism

there's no such word, but if we can call the religion of the buddhist as buddhism and there's also the islamism according to one of my super bright professors, then i can also use the word unfairism.


i just read a text message from a friend, and she's currently in the pool of sadness after a promised love had flown away from her. she's strong, but it's of no significance, since she seems weak and frail as she looks back on the words that had been said and the vows that had been made. anyone who falls in love usually gets weak and vulnerable. they tend to fight back but would always fall back and be hurt over and over until they realize it's really over.



what if it's not yet over?


to wait or not to wait. its a common question among separated couples, or to those who almost got to that part. they go on with life without each other, but still hoping that someday they'd meet again, and if destiny would still allow, find the joy on being at each other's side. it's kinda boring when you wait for someone to return, if a year is already long, then three is more like an eternity, so is it still smart to wait if all you've got is a promise that he'll be back?



i dare you to be happy


you can always find new joy. i won't say new love, since im sure he'd be in your heart til you can look at him straight in the eye without blinking a tear. but you have a lot of things to concentrate on while you try forgetting the memories he'd left you with. you can either keep it or throw it away. and i swear i won't blame you if you choose not to trash it, its the happiest moments of your life if im not mistaken you did find joy in loving him.



my judgement is still fair. but love is but unfair.


i am not in the postion to tell you to stop loving him and it will be more of an unfriendly advice if i'll tell to continue loving him coz im sure you'll be hurting yourself over and over. just let me ask you to think about it...relax and let time heal every wound. love him as long as you can...but let go when you think its already a waste of time.




smile.cry.laugh.love.and.live





we're here for you no matter what.
UNFAIRISM, its when you believe that loving is unfair and letting go is a good thing.